October only, ends October 31
The Breakthrough Bundle
Book your 90-minute Breakthrough Session this month and you also get 3 months of my ENM Companion free, so you have support between sessions too. Your Strategy Session fee counts toward it. If you don't leave with a clear next step, your follow-up call is on me.
Claim an October spotOnly 8 spots this month, because I coach in the evenings.
ENM coaching with Taylor K. Sparks
Real talk. Real tools. Real results for ethically non-monogamous relationships.
You already know something needs to change. You just need someone who actually gets it, and knows how to help you move through it.
You are not alone in this. And you are not broken.
Book a 20-minute Strategy SessionFor individuals, couples and throuples. Online, wherever you are.
Cited as a sex and relationship expert in 300+ articles, including
Something isn't working, and you know it.
One of you wants open. One of you isn't sure.
You're deep in the lifestyle but still arguing about the same boundaries.
Jealousy, silence, shutdowns, and conversations that go nowhere.
You've done the late-night talks, the YouTube rabbit holes, the anonymous Reddit threads. And now you're here.
This is not therapy. It's direct, judgment-free coaching that helps you understand what you actually want, how to say it clearly, and what your relationship can honestly hold, whether you're just opening up or years into the lifestyle and still hitting walls.
Three ways to work together
Not sure which fits? Start with the Strategy Session and we'll figure it out together.
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20-Minute Strategy Session
A focused conversation where you get a real sense of how I work, and I get a clear picture of where you are. You'll leave with real insight and real options, whether we keep working together or not.
No pressure. No pitch. Just clarity.
Book your Strategy SessionA small booking deposit holds your spot.
October Bundle bonuses included
90-Minute Breakthrough Session
One focused, high-impact session to cut through the noise and get you moving. Real answers, not homework for later.
✓ Your DISC Personality Profile
✓ Custom DISC InterACTION Guide for couples and throuples
✓ Full session recording and written recap
✓ 15% off the 6-Session Program if you upgrade within 5 days
✓ African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy Workbook
✓ October: 3 months of the ENM Companion free
$497
for individuals and couples. $697 for throuples.
Book your Breakthrough SessionBooking for a throuple? Use the throuple booking
The deepest work
6-Session ENM Navigation Program
For those serious about making ENM work, whether you're swinging, opening up, exploring polyamory, or defining your own path.
✓ Six 90-minute private sessions
✓ DISC profiles plus your combined InterACTION Guide
✓ An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy Workbook
✓ Midpoint check-ins and accountability between sessions
✓ 15% off OrganicLoven.com products for six months
$3,800
Payment plans available.
Book the 6-Session ProgramWant to talk first? Start with a Strategy Session
Get a feel for how I coach
Clients have found me on YouTube and booked within 48 hours.
Most ENM coaches have read the books. I've lived the life.
Within my 25-year marriage, 12 years ethically monogamous and 13 years ethically non-monogamous, I lived open, polyamorous, swinging and kinky. I've coached hundreds of individuals, couples and throuples through the hardest, most honest chapters of their relationships.
✓ 17 years of professional experience in ethical non-monogamy
✓ 10+ years as a corporate trainer in communication and conflict resolution
✓ Certified Human Behavior Specialist
✓ Author of An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy
✓ Founder of Skin Care for Athletes, a B Corp Certified brand that sponsored Olympic athletes at three consecutive Games
✓ Cited as a sex and relationship expert in Forbes, Oprah, Cosmopolitan, GQ, Men's Health, Glamour, and 300+ articles
Your questions, answered honestly
How is this different from therapy?
This is strategic, straight-talking coaching, not therapy. I don't coach what I've read. I coach what I've lived, and the tools from even one session go further than most people expect.
Who is this for?
Individuals, couples and throuples in any ENM structure, whether you're brand new or years in and still hitting the same walls. If you're looking for someone to tell you what you want to hear, I'm not your coach.
What happens in the Breakthrough Session?
You get focused clarity on where you are, where you're stuck and what needs to shift. You leave with practical next steps, real communication upgrades and your DISC reports.
What if I need more than one session?
Many clients start with the Breakthrough Session and move into the 6-Session Program. Enroll within 5 days and you get 15% off.
Still not sure if this is the right fit?
That's exactly what the 20-minute Strategy Session is for. Let's find out together.
You're not meant to do this alone.
Let's talk. Let's get clear. Let's build something that actually works for your life.
Book your Strategy SessionNot ready to book? Take the free ENM Readiness Assessment
Need to talk something through tonight? Try the ENM Companion free